Marriage

Husband: a male partner in a marriage

He is not to be put in a fathers’s role or a butlers role nor is he a bank institution.

He is simply a companion to the wife.

Wife: a female partner in a marriage

She is not to be put in a mother’s role or a maid’s role.

She is simply a helpmeet: companion and helper to the husband.

Both come together as one to make decisions. This is not a one sided relationship.

When decisions are made together, and things don’t go as planned, there will be no one to blame. Both will learn and take responsibility of the action.

Remember that when you join with another, you are no longer doing things by yourself. You are one with each other. Please include your partner in whatever decision you are facing.

There will be heated conversations and misunderstandings. This is where the rubber meets the road. It’s called COMMUNICATION.

What happens is this: one is not hearing the other simply because of the already made up mind in the conversation. The idea of I’m right and you are wrong.

This leads to arguments left unreconciled due to PRIDE❗️

In marriage it takes HUMILITY and SUBMISSION. Yes being humble and submissive is not weak. It is called WISDOM AND MATURITY. (Emphasis)

Marriage is more than just two people being with each other in a relationship.

You will be one another’s protector, counselor, advisor, encourager and that’s just to name a few.

You are one another support system.

Warning ‼️ Please keep married business to you and your spouse.

If you need an outside source. These maybe a source to help: Professional Marriage counseling or Pastoral counseling.

All others are a no (family members, friends and etc.)

You may ask as to why?

Family and friends may give advice based on how they feel towards you or spouse. Which is either love or envy.

With love they mean well because they care but may not speak encouragement due to anger about the situation.

Envy explains itself. Nothing good will come from their advice for the situation at hand.

So please keep all married situations between each other.

Kingdom Marriages

Wanted to bring to light concerning married couples that are in holiness.

This type of marriage is all of the above things that was stated with Christ Jesus being the head of it.

When standing before God to be joined together you are making a covenant between yourselves and Him. Not a temporary legal deal on paper.

It’s not a contract it is a covenant that will guide others along the path to marriage hood. Showing them how to love, honor and respect each other and God.

To all married couples wherever you stood to say those wedding vowels: God and the angels witnessed to that covenant. God honors marriage and this covenant is very serious.

““But at the beginning of creation God ‘made them male and female.’ ‘For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.’ So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate.””

‭‭Mark‬ ‭10‬:‭6‬-‭9‬ ‭NIV‬‬

God blessed

Ynita Wheeler-prophetess